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information , asking and respecting another being for who they are
I don’t know what it is. I am finding things quiet not what they seem all the time now. Are you one of those people who don’t say anything so not to rock the boat later down the track as it might be someone who might be useful down the tack..it is a shame that no one can be honest anymore. Caring anymore. I know who bullshits who and other things. ...Are there people who expect this?
I don’t want a friendship based on this type; I need a friendship based on open honesty.. maybe I expect to much from artist and entertainers. I was hopping my trust with you would allow you to be yourself and have this type of friendship. I still trust you and if it is alright with you I would like to continue to send and communicate with you. Be honest as this is important to me. If you are not sure that is ok.. just inform me and this can stop without repercussions.
I am just looking for a real friend at this point and since you were known to my father at one stage I took the leap of faith.
I am just looking for a real friend at this point and since you were known to my father at one stage I took the leap of faith.
- Show appreciation in recognition the pressures of men go through, and the responsibilities of provider and caretaker in the emotional, financial, social and mental areas. The overall focus on goals and picture. Often at times it is misunderstood and the appreciation is lost.
- If you could both sit down at the end of each day and review the highlights. Share what you really think, without making judgements about the people around you. It brings you close and it is nice to have a sounding board, someone to bounce ideas off, without judging and get an honest opinion.
- Just to say you understand with words, hugs and actions.
- Look directly in the eyes of each other and verbally or none verbally stating Ï love you and I am by your side all times.
- Appreciate each other and inform each other that it is ok, good job, doing great etc.
- Give plenty of emotional and physical strokes that are positive. Touching complements, sexual play, phone calls, notes, love messages.. Constantly reassure each other that no matter what happens...you accept each other fully in your relationship/partnership/
marriage. - Show genuine interest in each other’s day...listen
- Listen and verbally affirm your love for each other and your commitment to each other.
- Lovingly listen to each other without judgement.
- Acknowledgement that you are doing the best you can, even if you don’t quiet measure up to desires and expectations. Never compare each other with others. Give physical affection and let each other know you are glad to see each other as partners.
- Knowing each other is very different and
Can we live without love or compassion:
I know I cannot..
For the past few years I have wrapped myself in learning and learning and coffee.
Dealing with issues and learning more through Landmark education, Tafe,Music,Design,P.R, Film and Screen.
I have also begun to reconnect with old friends and even my father's friends. Some remember him, some don't, even forgetting and then remembering slight traces of him..
Interesting..
I even assisted many within the Entertainment Industry, when they asked me. I went and did a massive research on the whole of Entertainment Industry. The biggest ever done.. Still finding interesting things.
Some people say I did way too much according to certain research establishments. Found that out when I went to their workshops..
They showed me ways to manipulate research for companies so that their stats are correct and what focus groups do, etc. Interesting
I did not want to manipulate anything. I just wanted answers and wanted to see what people in the industry really wanted in their lives.. I found that..
Along that journey I found myself assisting their families, bring back relationships before there were any regrets. Seemed silly by most standards..I just did it without second thought.
The realisation that many alienated their families for their passion and dreams was amazing..
They took a step forward and did what they wanted to achieve, some did not get it correct but at least they did it.. Some of their partners manipulated situations, which confused things for a few.
Did I waste my time in doing all this..No..is my answer. I was privy to so many in giving me complete trust.. As I really asked hard questions and personal ones. Open ended. As I wanted to learn more.
Then I realised I had lost so much. My own personal wants and needs. I kept confidences' of others and listened to their stories which they wanted someone to know. I thank each and every one for giving me their trust. I am grateful that you opened up to me.
I write my life in poetry. In a way all my feelings are shared with each one of you. Have a book published and it is placed in the achieves in Australia, USA and in England and several of my works are in Harvard and Princeton, where it gets to be discussed on by scholars.. They were the first to read any of my works as several professors want me to allow that to happen, when they found them on my sites at that time.
I was the person who was a no one but the wife. I designed and build two homes. I encouraged immigrants to follow their trade and introduced them to people who assisted them. Now I am proud to say they are higher up in many organisations. Many asked me why I don't use them as contacts to gain more recognition in things. I am not like that.. I am so proud of all of them. I won't intrude .. I can be cheeky, playful and very serious. I am proud of all my friends no matter who they are. I acknowledge each one for their part in my life, yes, even my ex husband and ex lover. They are who they are and I don't want to change anything. You see what all I have been through has made me who I am today and in that I am grateful. As I have done things which assisted others without second thought of not doing those things. I accepted many things and still fight other things. Yes, I want a home, a lover, a partner, not wanting to be alone any longer. I am ready to trust again.
We cannot live a life without love, compassion or forgivnessor a life without people. We are human.we all have needs and wants.
There is so much more which I have shared but the above is just a bit more..my resume is getting too big with what i have done.. busy..not really. There is one thing though which has happened.. I can be very disapointed in people. Sometimes it depresses me for what they and I go through. I love people..but I do keep a distance.. as sometimes what happens pains me deeply .. I still have the ability to be in other's shoes.. There is another point in which is fact.. Died several times according to medical records.. and I was suppose to be dead in 2002 then beat the odds by medically dead last time in 2005... how many times can there be.. each time was sent back and revived with music and one mans voice..intersting..huh?
You have unlimited possiblities and you are the ones who make the biggest differances in lives.. i believe in all of you..as you can make the futures of all imaginable
For the past few years I have wrapped myself in learning and learning and coffee.
Dealing with issues and learning more through Landmark education, Tafe,Music,Design,P.R, Film and Screen.
I have also begun to reconnect with old friends and even my father's friends. Some remember him, some don't, even forgetting and then remembering slight traces of him..
Interesting..
I even assisted many within the Entertainment Industry, when they asked me. I went and did a massive research on the whole of Entertainment Industry. The biggest ever done.. Still finding interesting things.
Some people say I did way too much according to certain research establishments. Found that out when I went to their workshops..
They showed me ways to manipulate research for companies so that their stats are correct and what focus groups do, etc. Interesting
I did not want to manipulate anything. I just wanted answers and wanted to see what people in the industry really wanted in their lives.. I found that..
Along that journey I found myself assisting their families, bring back relationships before there were any regrets. Seemed silly by most standards..I just did it without second thought.
The realisation that many alienated their families for their passion and dreams was amazing..
They took a step forward and did what they wanted to achieve, some did not get it correct but at least they did it.. Some of their partners manipulated situations, which confused things for a few.
Did I waste my time in doing all this..No..is my answer. I was privy to so many in giving me complete trust.. As I really asked hard questions and personal ones. Open ended. As I wanted to learn more.
Then I realised I had lost so much. My own personal wants and needs. I kept confidences' of others and listened to their stories which they wanted someone to know. I thank each and every one for giving me their trust. I am grateful that you opened up to me.
I write my life in poetry. In a way all my feelings are shared with each one of you. Have a book published and it is placed in the achieves in Australia, USA and in England and several of my works are in Harvard and Princeton, where it gets to be discussed on by scholars.. They were the first to read any of my works as several professors want me to allow that to happen, when they found them on my sites at that time.
I was the person who was a no one but the wife. I designed and build two homes. I encouraged immigrants to follow their trade and introduced them to people who assisted them. Now I am proud to say they are higher up in many organisations. Many asked me why I don't use them as contacts to gain more recognition in things. I am not like that.. I am so proud of all of them. I won't intrude .. I can be cheeky, playful and very serious. I am proud of all my friends no matter who they are. I acknowledge each one for their part in my life, yes, even my ex husband and ex lover. They are who they are and I don't want to change anything. You see what all I have been through has made me who I am today and in that I am grateful. As I have done things which assisted others without second thought of not doing those things. I accepted many things and still fight other things. Yes, I want a home, a lover, a partner, not wanting to be alone any longer. I am ready to trust again.
We cannot live a life without love, compassion or forgivnessor a life without people. We are human.we all have needs and wants.
There is so much more which I have shared but the above is just a bit more..my resume is getting too big with what i have done.. busy..not really. There is one thing though which has happened.. I can be very disapointed in people. Sometimes it depresses me for what they and I go through. I love people..but I do keep a distance.. as sometimes what happens pains me deeply .. I still have the ability to be in other's shoes.. There is another point in which is fact.. Died several times according to medical records.. and I was suppose to be dead in 2002 then beat the odds by medically dead last time in 2005... how many times can there be.. each time was sent back and revived with music and one mans voice..intersting..huh?
You have unlimited possiblities and you are the ones who make the biggest differances in lives.. i believe in all of you..as you can make the futures of all imaginable
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